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Eight Things White Parents Should Teach About Black People

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Yesterday, I talked about how John Derbyshire’s “advice” to White parents on what to say to their kids about black people was the right idea with the wrong messenger. You can see my column here.

And while Derbyshire’s racist suggestions got him fired from the National Review it doesn’t mean that most White parents out there are doing a particularly good job to talking to thier kids about race.

So, I know you’ve all been waiting patiently to see … drum roll please:

The Talk for White Parents to their White Kids about Black People

In this day and age of Black presidents, a Black First Lady that still makes a White man’s head explode and George Zimmerman killing a defenseless Trayvon Martin in cold blood, you’ll need it.  It will come in handy White people, so read carefully. Don’t just open for emergencies, depending on what’s an emergency to you.  But, this should work for:

1) The first time your kid asks why there’s a Black history month

2) The first time they come to you asking about the word “nigger;” and

3) Just about any other time you’re stumped by a Black/White race issue and don’t know what to say.

 

Dear White son or daughter [INSERT NAME HERE], here’s what you need to know:

1) Black People and White people are different but that doesn’t mean one is better than the other. Black people look different, often eat different foods, communicate and socialize in ways that may seem strange or odd for you. But just because something is different doesn’t mean it’s bad, or that the way you do things is better. Always remember that.

2) If you don’t know something about Black people ask a lot of them. Your Black friends don’t speak for all Black people. It’s perfectly okay to not know something, because honestly unless you ask every Black person in America you really don’t know. Do you?

3) White People as a group have done terrible things to Blacks in this country – and just because they are black (not to mention Asians, Latinos and American Indians). This is a fact. You may not be personally responsible but you benefit from this fact and therefore have some responsibility. No: you never enslaved anybody, neither did your mother or I, but lots of White people did. Once slavery was over, White people spent about 100 years mistreating Blacks because they couldn’t figure out how to send them all home after that whole nation-building thing. This means that Black people used to get killed just for trying to vote, weren’t allowed to live where they wanted to, and even today some White people refuse to hire Blacks just because they are black. And while those types of things are illegal, people still do it. You benefit from this. So before you ever judge a Black person remember that other White people worked for centuries to make sure you’d be okay and Black people would stay poor.

4) Saying “nigger” is the same thing as saying “bitch.” Even though you may hear it in music, or with your friends at school you know perfectly well that you shouldn’t use that word regardless of who is in earshot. And really, why is it so important to use it anyway?

5) Always remember there is a difference between a Black neighborhood, a bad neighborhood and a poor neighborhood. Just because an area has lots of Black people doesn’t mean they’re poor or that there’s lots of crime. There are plenty of places where black people live that are nicer than our neighborhood. You should avoid any group of people that seem dangerous because of their behavior or activities, whether that’s in a trailer park or an inner city ghetto. You can get robbed by anybody.

6) No matter who your sister/brother has dated, or what your friends have told you, or how many episodes of Chappelle Show you’ve watched you do not KNOW Black people. Who or what you listen to, read, or sleep with does not make you Black. Acting like you know everything about Black people because you have some Black friends or enjoy rap music is ignorant.

7) Black people are not pets, so don’t touch them without permission, or change your voice when you’re around them, or worse: automatically try to set them up with any Black person you know. This never works out. If you’re curious about their hair just ask, you’d be amazed at some of the stuff Black folks hear all day.

8) And finally: the best way to get along with Black people is to not be oblivious. Nothing annoys Black people more than White people who pretend racism doesn’t exist and then proclaim ignorance in the face of overwhelming evidence. Just because you don’t see it, or don’t want to see it, doesn’t mean Black people are paranoid or making things up. If you think about lesson 3 you should be good on this.

I know this talk has made you uncomfortable, but your mother/father and I believe that it’s better for you to hear this at home than learning about it on the streets or from your friends. Now go out to the park and make some Black friends! But just promise me you won’t cut through those trailer parks. I heard those people are all single moms and sell crystal meth.

DR. JASON JOHNSONPolitic365 Chief Political Correspondent, is a professor of Political Science at Hiram College in Ohio and author of the book Political Consultants and Campaigns: One Day to Sell. You can read more at www.drjasonjohnson.com or follow him on Twitter @Drjasonjohnson



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  1. kevin myerson

    Black people are not different than white people. The rednecks saying it is already enough stupid. Segragated people are different. The rest of us are the same. Genetically, skin tone has no special marker. We may as well be divided by hieght or weight. White people are black people with the genetic DISEASE that makes us white. Give it another 200 years and there wont be any black people. And not in the racisty killy way.


    • kevin myerson

      White skin is literally a genetic disease. We arent superior to any race. We will however win this retarded race war you believe in inevitably. Just because i mean, there is no other pigment disease. It took less than a thousand years for this disease to take all of europe. This whole idea that as white people we are losing our way of life is hella dumb.


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  3. joe

    I have never seen an all black neighborhood that was not filled with crime and bars on windows. Let’s be honest here and quit the PC bullshit.


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  8. Cindi

    I”M SORRY…..WHAT?


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  10. jc

    There are plenty of blacks that get along well in this country. There are plenty of blacks that make more money than most on this site. I am one that was born in this country and that makes it my country rather you like it or not. Many on this site keep saying most blacks when in reality they may only know 2or 3. Some whites are angry at that. Some whites and not all of very jealous of successful black people. What do you all on this site thing about all the black between that have fought and died for this country and for your rights and freedom? Just wanted to know. Anyone


  11. Fancy

    Like football players basketball players, baseball players, just some that make more money than most on this site. Your right JC.
    These peckerwoods don’t know the first thing about slavery and how this country was built on the back of slave labor. The whipping to bloody backs,killing ,eating scraps all year, some starved to death or worked to death. they haven’t a clue of why America is what it is today.


  12. Lance Crass

    Jealous eh? Of you? Kizzy you coudn’t pay me a billion dollars to be black. But I’ll bet, if you were truly honest, you would pay to be turned white. Michael Jackson had a billion dollars and he still bleached himself. Why is it that as soon as a Shine gets some money, the first thing he wants is a white woman. Look a Tiger Woods. He had 20. I think it’s because you sheboons are fat nasty whores.


  13. Lance Crass

    Jealous eh? Of you? Kizzy you coudn’t pay me a billion dollars to be black. But I’ll bet, if you were truly honest, you would pay to be turned white. Michael Jackson had a billion dollars and he still bleached himself. Why is it that as soon as a Shine gets some money, the first thing he wants is a white woman. Look a Tiger Woods. He had 20. I think it’s because you sheboons are nasty.


  14. Lance Crass

    Jealous eh? Of you? Kizzy you coudn’t pay me a billion dollars to be black. But I’ll bet, if you were truly honest, you would pay to be turned white. Michael Jackson had a billion dollars and he still bleached himself. Why is it that as soon as a Shine gets some money, the first thing he wants is a white woman. Look a Tiger Woods. He had 20. I think it’s because you black females are nasty.


  15. Lance Crass

    Jealous eh? Of you? Kizzy you coudn’t pay me a billion dollars to be black. But I’ll bet, if you were truly honest, you would pay to be turned white. Michael Jackson had a billion dollars and he still bleached himself. Why is it that as soon as a Shine gets some money, the first thing he wants is a white woman?


  16. Lance Crass

    Jealous eh? Of you? Kizzy you coudn’t pay me a billion dollars to be black. But I’ll bet, if you were truly honest, you would pay to be turned white. Michael Jackson had a billion dollars and he still bleached himself.


  17. Joe smikey

    Funny you don’t want to be lumped into a conversation about hown blacks feel yet you go on to use the term Whites as if all whites on the other hand can all be lumped together and summed up. No worries I read it all the time white this whited this whites this thirds this. At least u tried to add some distiction. Most dont.


  18. Joe smikey

    Funny you don’t want to be lumped into a conversation about hown blacks feel yet you go on to use the term Whites as if all whites on the other hand can all be lumped together and summed up. No worries I read it all the time white this white this whites this whites this. At least u tried to add some distiction. Most dont. I grew being taught that it was the whites who were the problem and maybe they were but the pendulum has shifted. Maybe in a few generations it will finally be in the middle


  19. Joe smikey

    It’s sad that an entire race goes around thinking they are hated becasue of thier skin color. You think I’m talking about blacks but am i?


  20. Waitover There

    ooga booga?


  21. A Man

    I agree. And I find it hard to understand why some people see white people as passive. The same people who killed, raped, hung and tortured other human beings. This is a sign of fear. If “black” people can break out of slavery, can you image what else they could do? Become president of the country maybe. First to perform open heart surgery. Maybe invent the gas mask. Maybe invent the potato chip. Maybe invent the walker light bulb. Maybe the traffic light. Wait, sorry…African Americans did this already. African Americans are my role models!!


  22. Lance Crass

    Nigro, only 1.4% of all whites between 1645 and 1863, ever owned slaves. And they have long since perished. There was a time that 28% of free blacks owned slaves. There were almost 4,000 slaves owned by blacks in Louisiana alone. You say, “don’t judge me because a few blacks like to loot, riot and murder each other. I say, stop bashing me for the acts of a few whites in the south. You do that and I will keep paying my taxes so you can keep swiping your EBT card. Deal?


  23. NeRO

    You are or were a slave? You make no sense lol. Black’s are silly. I plan to teach my kids to stay away from black and white supremacists like yourselves. You were most likely never whipped. I don’t care about the past at all. I just want you to know that the hate for whites that you have will most likely consume you. And I hope it does.


  24. Kieran

    LOOOOOOL OH PLEASE.


  25. A.B.

    You are really horrible.


  26. John Smith

    Bet your wife wants a big black one! She is probably sick and tired of your little pecker. Hahaha! I ain’t even black but you just sounds so insecure and stupid.


  27. tyrone

    Pay me white cracker make meh big n strong to rape n kill you .We need to kill all the white people. white people we are getting closer time to die stab the white boy f*** them in their brown eyes shoot the white boy F*** them in their brown eyes. white people getting closer time to die. smash all the white peoples skulls and F*** them in their brown eyes. F*** their gdad n mums get their lil childs too. Beat them all good and F*** them white crackers in their browneyes. They want to be murdered by us they love it so give it to um good rite in their brown eyesz.


  28. Dan McCann

    There are differences between Blacks and Niggers.

    You sir, are a Nigger.


  29. Tyrone your fucked up with that attitude you won’t live long.There is trash on here black and white.A 56 yr old white man speaking here.


  30. Tt

    What would Michael brown be if he was white? Alive!


  31. kevin myerson

    So, everyone knows you are white bro. FYI


  32. shirleychis

    Lol!!! who is pure? So many people bash blacks and dont even know what they are themselves! They say monkey this…sheboon that!!! We are the world. We are turning it into a rainbow. I never ever thought about being white..just never have. But I love all people honestly. I would challenge you to befriend an american negro who is 100 percent real and you would be hooked for life. We have that affect on others. If the whole globe was white who would be the target next?


  33. daver

    Fucking asshole. can’t wait till they invent a way for a computer to bitch slap it’s user, cause imma be hackin’ inta that all day up in your shit. Change your ways, son, ‘for I change ‘em for you.


  34. none of your business

    Only tbe big fat ugly ones with low self esteem like you guys the white mans left overs


 
 



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