Eight Things White Parents Should Teach About Black People

Eight Things White Parents Should Teach About Black People


Yesterday, I talked about how John Derbyshire’s “advice” to White parents on what to say to their kids about black people was the right idea with the wrong messenger. You can see my column here.

And while Derbyshire’s racist suggestions got him fired from the National Review it doesn’t mean that most White parents out there are doing a particularly good job to talking to thier kids about race.

So, I know you’ve all been waiting patiently to see … drum roll please:

The Talk for White Parents to their White Kids about Black People

In this day and age of Black presidents, a Black First Lady that still makes a White man’s head explode and George Zimmerman killing a defenseless Trayvon Martin in cold blood, you’ll need it.  It will come in handy White people, so read carefully. Don’t just open for emergencies, depending on what’s an emergency to you.  But, this should work for:

1) The first time your kid asks why there’s a Black history month

2) The first time they come to you asking about the word “nigger;” and

3) Just about any other time you’re stumped by a Black/White race issue and don’t know what to say.


Dear White son or daughter [INSERT NAME HERE], here’s what you need to know:

1) Black People and White people are different but that doesn’t mean one is better than the other. Black people look different, often eat different foods, communicate and socialize in ways that may seem strange or odd for you. But just because something is different doesn’t mean it’s bad, or that the way you do things is better. Always remember that.

2) If you don’t know something about Black people ask a lot of them. Your Black friends don’t speak for all Black people. It’s perfectly okay to not know something, because honestly unless you ask every Black person in America you really don’t know. Do you?

3) White People as a group have done terrible things to Blacks in this country – and just because they are black (not to mention Asians, Latinos and American Indians). This is a fact. You may not be personally responsible but you benefit from this fact and therefore have some responsibility. No: you never enslaved anybody, neither did your mother or I, but lots of White people did. Once slavery was over, White people spent about 100 years mistreating Blacks because they couldn’t figure out how to send them all home after that whole nation-building thing. This means that Black people used to get killed just for trying to vote, weren’t allowed to live where they wanted to, and even today some White people refuse to hire Blacks just because they are black. And while those types of things are illegal, people still do it. You benefit from this. So before you ever judge a Black person remember that other White people worked for centuries to make sure you’d be okay and Black people would stay poor.

4) Saying “nigger” is the same thing as saying “bitch.” Even though you may hear it in music, or with your friends at school you know perfectly well that you shouldn’t use that word regardless of who is in earshot. And really, why is it so important to use it anyway?

5) Always remember there is a difference between a Black neighborhood, a bad neighborhood and a poor neighborhood. Just because an area has lots of Black people doesn’t mean they’re poor or that there’s lots of crime. There are plenty of places where black people live that are nicer than our neighborhood. You should avoid any group of people that seem dangerous because of their behavior or activities, whether that’s in a trailer park or an inner city ghetto. You can get robbed by anybody.

6) No matter who your sister/brother has dated, or what your friends have told you, or how many episodes of Chappelle Show you’ve watched you do not KNOW Black people. Who or what you listen to, read, or sleep with does not make you Black. Acting like you know everything about Black people because you have some Black friends or enjoy rap music is ignorant.

7) Black people are not pets, so don’t touch them without permission, or change your voice when you’re around them, or worse: automatically try to set them up with any Black person you know. This never works out. If you’re curious about their hair just ask, you’d be amazed at some of the stuff Black folks hear all day.

8) And finally: the best way to get along with Black people is to not be oblivious. Nothing annoys Black people more than White people who pretend racism doesn’t exist and then proclaim ignorance in the face of overwhelming evidence. Just because you don’t see it, or don’t want to see it, doesn’t mean Black people are paranoid or making things up. If you think about lesson 3 you should be good on this.

I know this talk has made you uncomfortable, but your mother/father and I believe that it’s better for you to hear this at home than learning about it on the streets or from your friends. Now go out to the park and make some Black friends! But just promise me you won’t cut through those trailer parks. I heard those people are all single moms and sell crystal meth.

DR. JASON JOHNSONPolitic365 Chief Political Correspondent, is a professor of Political Science at Hiram College in Ohio and author of the book Political Consultants and Campaigns: One Day to Sell. You can read more at www.drjasonjohnson.com or follow him on Twitter @Drjasonjohnson


    • Nature warns birds & other animals not to eat certain berries by coloring them so they are recognized as harmful. We avoid skunks, nature gave them a fluorescent stripe. Nature made certain people cockroach colored to warn us to avoid them.

      • And nature made you people pink and sunburned so you can get cancer and autism. You people also have the most arrest for rape. You people also have sex with dogs. So in reality you’re all sick.

      • God gave 92% of all humans skin coloring but denied it to a tiny 8% minority making them pale and strange looking among Humanity. The Sun even hates them. That is the same group that created racism, causes all the wars, invaded and stole all the land from others, killed millions of people, invented every weapon of mass destruction, and dropped nuclear weapons on unarmed civilians. Twice.

  1. Tell the truth about Hitler and the Nazie! !!Our Government are responsible for the way tmost people in America think. I had no idea that there was BLACKS,JEWISH, CHINESE AND MUSLIM NAZI’S

    • Adolph Hitler predicted in the 1930’s that the black race would be the downfall for United states. He was a sick racist megalomaniac, but damn if he wasn’t right.

  2. Africans are te only people never to invent their own written language. Colonists bought slaves from African slave owners. In America 51 percent of all murders are committed by 6 percent of the population blacks.

  3. I am a white mom of blond hair, blue-eyed boy and a dark-skinned 1/2 Filipino girl. I agree with everything this author says. As for “black neighborhood”- for daycare, I took my son to a black widow of a former armed services member who lived in a “black neighborhood”. I never felt in danger there. She took great care of my son.

    I understand poor treatment of blacks in the past and do not dispute that the ill effects continue, unfairly, today for black people. I have discussed this with both my children. I also risked my job security and promotion by stepping forward to help two black co-workers who where discriminated against by our redneck white boss. I helped them obtain evidence and consulted with them on their EEOC hearings. I am happy that they both prevailed in the hearings and the very, very large insurance company we worked for gave nationwide raises to all blacks in all offices- even though it was not the performance evaluation time of year.

    I will never know what it is like to be black. But, I will tell you that many people think that my daughter is 1/2 black and I have suffered by watching her face the discrimination that some blacks experience because people in our rural, Republican area in which we live have excluded her. When she was younger, one girl told her she would not play with her because of the color of her skin and her hair. She has very curly hair (which she actually got from me) that lead people to conclude she must be part black. The discrimination continued as she grew older- it was just more subtle.

    I will concede that the author is right in that I will also never really understand some of the cultural differences. But then again, I don’t understand my husband’s cultural differences either. It is just important to appreciate different ways of approaching things. There is no one best way. When we have a group of people who think differently, I think we can have the best possible and most creative outcome when everyone works together.

  4. By now we know – bringing blacks from Africa was a huge mistake for both North and South America – we didn’t have industrial revolution yet and artificial intelligence back then, but now it’s time for blacks to go where they belong – Africa.

    • Why couldn’t you lazy whites build your own stuff and do your own work? You still can’t. Without non-whites, your whole civilization collapses.

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  7. I used to try to understand and get along with black people, but then I got ripped off by one, another stole from me when a friend brought him over, another tried to rob me, and then I got into delivering pizza when I turned 18, and most of the time they didn’t even have the money to pay for the food, let alone a tip, and then, on top of all that they have an attitude with you, as if they shouldn’t have to pay for it, and then I had a couple as coworkers, and they were the laziest people I’d ever met, and rude about it too, one black lady who worked there stole an 8 piece of wings every night she worked. So, you can try to make them out as just being great people in a bad situation, but after my experiences, why would I believe that? And why would I even want to be in the same room with a black person?

    • Dude those things are subhuman. Primates are more human than those things are. “Black people” are the most primitive creature on the planet. You’re always going to get ripped off or stole from. Those things shouldn’t be allowed to breed and should be destroyed as quickly as possible

  8. The only thing kids need to know about nignogs is that if we knew then how much trouble you are, we would have picked our own damn cotton. Go back to Africa where you belong and stop using our technology you hypocrite.

  9. I liked this article. And now I have an honest question, why does it bother me so much that I hate to see white girls with half black babies. Part of it is I am 99% always correct that the child has been born out of wedlock and the girl is promiscuous hucy moma trash. Is their not a lot of misleading, taking advantage of insecurities going on in a lot of instances. I think so. It is as if the shock and awe effect is what these unwed parent kids are after, Not love. True love I could accept and deal with. I have been married for thirty years and would not want any of my children to be born bastards but today nothing is sacred and the unusual has become ordinary. It upsets me to see all these young people being tought to accept everything. Do you remember when tattoes and body piercings were rare or only seen in national geographic magazine? Did anyone teach about sin? And what sort of problems will these new children have with such bad role models. The soci economic realities as well as the lack of spirituality are the true disturbances today, race or skin color are just background noise that doesn’t allow us to focus on genuine issues. Save the tree, kill the baby humans is the new mantra along with promoting all sorts of perversions that won’t propagate any race. Okay, got a little side tracked. I really like your article for its simplicity and honestness. Got a sense of integrity on your part whoch is why I posed my original question. I just get ugly feelings when I see these poor little souls with thier unwed hoochie mommas. A part of me thinks they want such a negative reaction, so I hold my tongue and say a prayer.

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